Summary: Bobby Montoya, a transgender born with male genitalia, was rejected by a Denver Girl Scout troop. Felisha Archuleta, Bobby’s mom, believes that “he was born in the wrong body.” She was a girl in a boy’s body. Ever since the age of two, Bobby was convinced that he was a girl. “He” asked for ponies, princess birthdays, Rapunzel themed nights; throughout his entire childhood, Bobby’s mother continued to support him. Now at seven years old, Bobby has stirred attention in the social media. The Girl Scouts of Colorado says that they would “reach out to the family of the excluded child and will be altering its training programs so that all girls are supported.” As for support, The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation extends their statement to the family that “if a child identifies as a girl and the child's family presents her as a girl, Girl Scouts of Colorado welcomes her as a Girl Scout.” Although Bobby hid his preferences before, he has now publicly dressed as the gender that he feels like. “Despite the humiliation [of rejection,] the confrontation seems to have strengthened, not weakened Bobby's sense of sense of self.” He states that others “can't be mean to me. I am a human being like everyone else.” Now, through public acceptance, Bobby may get what he wants: to be a girl (scout).
Analysis: I do not remember where I heard the commentary that children are like rocks, while the parents are the water, smoothing the rocks to the shape that they wanted to be. (I do not take credit for this). However at that time, I was thinking that rocks are immobile, thoughtless, and unthinking things, children are not. In actuality, children are the opposite. While it is true that the parents may be able to influence the psychology of their child, it does not necessarily mean that they have the power to mold the child to the desired shape and form. It is because we are human and not inanimate objects that it is difficult to carve and impact the child the way we wish them to be.
Bobby’s mother, Felisha Archuleta, supported her son and his desire to become a girl. While others have lightly commented that the she can still sway Bobby’s opinions and personality with parental enforcement, she has chosen to fully and positively support his decision. There is nothing wrong with a mother wanting to encourage her child who simply wants to be what he truly wants to be. Children do not see what is wrong desiring to be what they wish to be; they see no right or wrong distinction within their choices. What is right or wrong is attributed in conjunction “normalcy.” The audience may be shocked by Bobby’s initial beginnings of transgenderism, but they sympathize with him. He ultimately is portrayed as the victim. Children are not that easily held to be morally suspect. All they know is what they want. If Bobby wants to be a boy, then who is tell him that it is not “right.” What others really want to see is that his “boy parts” are “normal” and his desire to be a girl despite this is what is “abnormal.”
James, Susan Onaldson. "Transgender Bobby Montoya Still Waits for Call From Girl Scouts - Yahoo! News." Yahoo! News - Latest News & Headlines. Good Morning America, 27 Oct. 2011. Web. 28 Oct. 2011.